20 Qualities of a Mature Masculine Leader
How do you rate yourself?
0 Points I do not exhibit this behaviour
1 Point This shows up occasionally
2 Points I do this frequently
3 Points This is me. I consistently behave this way.
Highest score possible is 60 / 60
- I am a self-sufficient man.
- I hold a “no problem” attitude.
- I am clear on my terms, my personal standards, and my commitments.
- I keep my word – holding integrity high.
- I am responsible and accountable, taking ownership of my life, with no need for excuses.
- I call men out and hold them accountable.
- I am open to feedback / criticism / coaching; I do not complain, pout or get defensive when challenged.
- I clean up any of my broken words or commitments with those I have impacted, without having to be asked.
- I do not carry “lists” – I clear with men swiftly and directly.
- I am confident.
- I give my best even when I can get by with less.
- I am decisive, taking action.
- I am impeccable, precise and thorough.
- I am humble.
- I ask for help.
- I show and express care.
- I broaden my context, serving others selflessly – expanding from “what I can get” to include “what I can contribute.”
- I am conscious of how I affect the people around me.
- I bring other men up and support them to win.
- I am respected by men, a leader who is followed.
How do you rate yourself?
0 Points I do not exhibit this behaviour
1 Point This shows up occasionally
2 Points I do this frequently
3 Points This is me. I consistently behave this way.
Highest score possible is 60 / 60